It has been more than 1 week since you left SGN and yes, it was a bit weird to hear that you already got some “lucks” with other girls in Shanghai, eventhough it is not serious but I felt sad … just a bit

You have said that was a wrong decision to move to Shanghai but you know you chosen to go there and my bad of not going with you

Maybe it wasnt meant to be

I will always remember the lame ascuse you used to call me on the phone the very 1st time

I will always remember how happy you looked when I accepted to go on the 1st day

I will always remember how happy you were when I got “jealous” with your workmate

I will always remember how you didnt want to answer all of my questions

I will always remember your smart and mature saying

I will always sorry for making you listening to my problem with work with ex boyfriend

I will always remember the way you flirt and being cute

I will always remember all good things about you

There are some moments I missed, there are some nightmares I had had.

There were love, happiness and there were tears, hurt, disapointment.

There were forgiving but there are some unforgotten.

I did loved you and you were a big part of my life.

There are some facts that we have gone from love to something else, not love, not friend, it is something in the middle and it is something that we dont know how to call it, I just feel it.

There are some discussions we will never meet at the point where both of us are satisfied.

Just know, the past is the past, nothing can be changed and the goal is our future, maybe your future will not include me and mine will not include you and it does not mean that we can not be both happy.

Someday, we might sit down and talked about our old times, we might not talk about how we loved each other but some current conflict will be a joke for both of us, we will laugh and it will gone…forever.

Sometime in a day, I wish that thing had happened differently but I believe that things always happen for a reason.

She wants to go out

He is tired and just wants to stay in, plus the stock market went down 10 points is giving him a headache.

She is upset about it and she does not understand for him

So she forces him to go with her, and he finally agrees.

He is tired at the event. After she has fun with her friends, she looks for him and she finds him having a good conversation with a hot woman. She gets jealous.

They argue.

She decides to have 2 days separate from him in order to “finish her book”

After 2 days without being with each other, they missed each other, the argument has gone and they have great time again.

He asks her to consider the idea of to have 2 days off every week so they can always have great time after 2 days off. She disagrees and they argue again.

I think:

Carrie is really childish, selfish and a bit controlling.

Wait a moment, that is me when I am in a relationship.

I wanted my boyfriend to go out with me and my friends

I wanted to have my “me” time, but if my boyfriends wanted to have his free time alone, I would get freak out, I thought “well, by the time I get free time, you also have your free time already”. Apparently, my thought was absolutely wrong.

Thank all the ex boyfriends for nice compliments about me as the best girlfriend that you have had,  how sweet, caring, funny, smart and warm person I am, but now I am here, admit that I also have some really bad attitude. So, sorry ex boyfriends.

When a relationship is end, it might be really over or it might just change to another relationship

It always hurts when you have love

When a new person ask you ” can you just look at me and think about me?”, you get confused, then that is a sign for you to admit “it is not really over”

My best friend used to complain that I was not being fair to the person who loves me and treasure me. Maybe it is right, but to me, I do need a flick

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Girls think too much and question and have million answers for their own questions

When a guy has some vague hint, girls who are into him, will sit down and analyze as much and as long as they can.

I have learned:

- Guys say what they think

- Guys do what they want

When a guy likes you, there will be a lot of hint for you to see.

Dont think that he is shy when he does not text you, I have learned, even a most shy boy in the world, has their own way to connect with the girl he likes

So, summary:

- When a guy like you, he will tell you or do sth about it.

- When a guy tries to hide his thought about you, he still get an attention on you

- When a guy tease you a lot or piss you off a lot, not sure if he is into you but for sure he is trying to get your attention.

- When a guy do sth like this, you should forget him:

+ Always busy

+ Never call for nothing, just call when they need something

Expats come, expats go and some expats come back after a while, some will gone for good

Welcome party and farewell party

Friends, and love

Some settle down their life in SGN, some choose to live somewhere else

It has good side of the moving around: make new friends, excitement of the first time, learn and grow

Bad side of it: farewell party, the goodbye that someone has to say in tears

As a friend, I know I will have to support you even it is not easy to say

That is a good chance for you, I know how much you care about your career and if I were you, if I had a chance, I also choose to go

We will stay in touch and there was a time, you and I had great fun.