Girls analyze everything when they are interested in a guy
Girls think too much and question and have million answers for their own questions
When a guy has some vague hint, girls who are into him, will sit down and analyze as much and as long as they can.
I have learned:
- Guys say what they think
- Guys do what they want
When a guy likes you, there will be a lot of hint for you to see.
Dont think that he is shy when he does not text you, I have learned, even a most shy boy in the world, has their own way to connect with the girl he likes
So, summary:
- When a guy like you, he will tell you or do sth about it.
- When a guy tries to hide his thought about you, he still get an attention on you
- When a guy tease you a lot or piss you off a lot, not sure if he is into you but for sure he is trying to get your attention.
- When a guy do sth like this, you should forget him:
+ Always busy
+ Never call for nothing, just call when they need something
Expats in HCM city, small community
Expats come, expats go and some expats come back after a while, some will gone for good
Welcome party and farewell party
Friends, and love
Some settle down their life in SGN, some choose to live somewhere else
It has good side of the moving around: make new friends, excitement of the first time, learn and grow
Bad side of it: farewell party, the goodbye that someone has to say in tears
As a friend, I know I will have to support you even it is not easy to say
That is a good chance for you, I know how much you care about your career and if I were you, if I had a chance, I also choose to go
We will stay in touch and there was a time, you and I had great fun.
It has been a long time since last time I danced my shoes off at club, Velvet, the 1st time that I enjoyed this club with great fun friends
I had planed to have breakfast when I was drunk and it makes me regret when I had a hangover and had to wake up at 8 for breakfast. After that, I decided to go back home and sleep instead of having coffee with friends, I still remember that I will have a few meetings with my partners in the afternoon.
After the 1st meeting finished, I was waiting for the next one and I found myself walking from Diamond Plaza to Dong Khoi street, on the left Dong Khoi street, all of the store have been teared down.
So I walked a bit further to Nguyen Hue street, bought some travel magazines and some more stationary for my little desk at home.
I walk walk walk
And listen to music
I walk walk walk
Met one friend on my way, have a chit chat and then we keep walking together
It was beautiful
I feel so free, I feel so good
I guess this is what they call freedom:
- Freedom is when you can walk in the middle of crazy Saigon and dont need to watch out for anything or anyone.
- Freedom is when you can work and enjoy it
- Freedom is when you suddenly meet a friend and start talking about all kind of stuff and keep on walking without looking at your watch for the next meeting.
What a beautiful Sat with the hangover.
After took Ann to work, I realized it was too early for my first meeting
I decided to sit and wait at the park.
It was nice, relax, and fresh. Perfect morning.
I bought coconut juice.
I wanted to close my eyes and enjoy this precious moment, when I dont have to think or worry about anything.
So I close the left eye (because I have to keep an eye on my motorbike and my laptop) =))
It was nice
My cell phone rang “Hello, Ms Uyen, I am here at the coffee shop…”
That was time to go back with reality.
- Father: My son is a bad student
- Father’s friend: Really? I think he is not that bad.
…
…
After the friend left:
- Mother: Do you think our son is really that bad?
- Father: Not bad at all, but as a teacher, I can not give our son complement in front of other people, unless people will think that I am not fair when I gave our son good rate for the test.
- Mother: Ah you are right.
My opinion: How can the father/ teacher be right? If the son is really good in school, the father does not need to give complement but he also does not need to give such bad comment about his own son. It makes the son feel like his work is not appreciated. That is selfish of the father when he thinks he did it for the son, he does not do it for the son, he did it to make him look like a good and fairly teacher.
Khi:
1. Làm việc một ngày dài, để rồi tối nhận ra không có gì hoàn thành
2. Làm việc nhiều để rồi thấy hình như không có hiệu quả
3. Nghĩ đến vacation mà lại không muốn có vacation
Google has a summary for search online, here is the most things that girlfriends and boyfriends search for:
Girlfriends search mostly:
1. How to get my boyfriend propose
2. How to get my boyfriend spend more time with me
3. How to get my boyfriend stop smoking
4. How to get my boyfriend last longer in bed
5. How to get my boyfriend become more romantic
6. How to get my boyfriend stop drinking
Boyfriends:
1. How to get my girlfriend give me head
2. How to get my girlfriend break up with me
3. How to get my girlfriend shave
4. How to get my girlfriend lose weight
5. How to get my girlfriend to forgive me
6. How to get my girlfriend kiss me
Cambodia and Vanilla Sky movie has nothing in common but to me, it does.
I was going Cambodia the next morning and I was too excited to sleep, so I had to do something and I chosen to watch Vanilla Sky, an old famous movie but I had not watched it yet.
The first part of the movie, the triangle love in Vanilla Sky, makes me think.
Cameron Diaz is a fuck buddy of Tom Cruise, Tom Cruise had a huge crush on Penelope Cruz, and of course Cameron gets jealous, because she does not want to be just a fuck buddy, she wants to be more like a girlfriend.
First, Cameron was trying to act cool when she saw Tom had a huge crush on Penelope, and then she keeps asking questions about Penelope, how things going with Tom and Penelope.
One day, Cameron follows Tom and saw him leaving Penelope’s house, at first, she was trying to be nice, she complains about how Tom has been rude to her and she would like him to make it up to her by … going with her to her apartment (aka a merci fuck). And silly, horny Tom gets in the car, biggest mistake ever.
When they are in the car, she gets crazy and scream about how she loves him and wants to be his girlfriend and how hurt she feels when she had to pretend to be his buddy which she does not want it.
She drove the car over the bridge and commits a suicide with Tom in the car. He did not die but his his face is damaged badly.
This is really like someone I know, who is an old fuck buddy of my friend and she has done some silly stuffs that annoyed me.
Well, after I watched this movie, I am kinda feel less annoyed about the girl tho. She is realistic version of Cameron Diaz in Vanilla Sky even though she is not that crazy.
I just got some thought out of the “triangle love” in Vanilla Sky:
1. Dont get emotional involved with your fuck buddy, girls should be aware of that, because once you are a fuck buddy, mostly, you can not be anything more.
2. Dont be fuck buddy of the guy that you already like and want to be more than … a friend.
3. Dont pretend to be cool when you can not be cool, dont play this game when your emotional is already involved.
4. Dont be too friendly to your chasers whom you know that nothing will happen with, because you dont know when they will get hurt and be crazy.
5. Dont take your chasers for granted, think about bad karma.
I did not know anything about you
It was a sunny day, when my friend introduced you to me, I knew that I fell in love.
You are soo white and shiny, look at myself, I was wondering will you be mine?
Then, one day I took all of my strength, and came to you, look at you and now… you are mine.
I promise myself that I will treat you nicely, and you will not ever regret that you are mine now, not anybody else’s.
It has been a few days since you and I together, but I am soo busy with work, I did not have much time to play with you, I am sorry babe.
I promise, tonight will be the night.
PS: You = Nokia E71.
And Ms Uyen Vu always get what she wants 
I found my old notebook/ diary, there were some very cute notes I made before, and I read how I expected my boyfriend to be:
1. Not handsome but manly look, this one not much change.
2. Funny, make me laugh.
3. Not talkative, I even noted that because I talk a lot so he needs to be quiet guy
4. Not violent
5. Not care too much about outside look
6. Ambitious
7. Never pick me up late =))
8. Care about me and dont yell at me
And I think, the list will go on like this:
1. No lie no cheat
2. No drama
3. Mature
4. Proud of having me as a girlfriend
5. Agree to watch Friends and Curb your enthusiasm with me when I want to
Gotta get my fancy thing in the office come true